Jealousy can score very romantic relationships and the truth is that may persist even when a relationship between two people comes to an end. Is because the decision to end the relationship was not unanimous, either because your ex can not accept the fact that you have a new love in your life, it is important to know how to deal with an ex-boyfriend jealous.
The end is really the end
If you end a relationship with a person who already is in itself very jealous, that is, has always shown very jealous during the time they were together, it is important that the end of the relationship is clear. From the moment we put the final point in the relationship and has no doubt about the decision, the other person must realize that it is the end and there is no chance of reconciliation. Explain very well the reasons that led to the decision-making, be 100% honest, do not answer the charges or give reasons for discussions. Propose that each follow their life and they are both very happy - this is an excellent time to start again.
cut communication
What happens with many people jealous at the end of a relationship that is not able to ultimately drop your partner (a). A jealous ex may be constantly calling, sending messages, emails or tweets to the other element, which makes the idea of each turn a new chapter in his life, much more difficult. If you have an ex-boyfriend (a) jealous that does not accept the end of the relationship, you need to cut any form of communication that still holds to that person. As much it costs, do not answer your phone calls, do not reply to your SMS, ceases to be your follower on Twitter, not your Facebook friend. This cut in the communication line may be temporary, it may be definitive - it is important to do so. Only then able to convey the message that everything is over and that definitely does not admit this constant invasion of privacy and jealous scenes - even give the other person some reason to stop and think about what you are doing.
Talk face-to-face
Sometimes the insistence and persecution - especially the face! - Is so strong that you can feel the need to talk face-to-face with your ex-boyfriend (a), in an attempt to call him to reason and make him realize that their jealousies are not only destabilize their day-to-day, as they are not allowing that person to follow his life. Avoid mentioning that also is not able to walk forward (can give the other person a hope that does not actually exist!): On the contrary, tell him I have moved on and want him / her to do the same for your good! Be direct, clear and assertive, never wavering in his position - if you have not done, this may be the ideal time to notify the other person will also be put an end to all forms of communication going forward. If a scene is concerned by her ex-boyfriend (a) jealous, do not combine this meeting in a public place; On the other hand, if you prefer not to be alone with him / her ask a family member or friend to be home (preferably in another room) at the time of your conversation.
casual encounters
It is natural that after much or shortly after the end of the relationship, to find your ex, especially if they have the same circle of friends, working in the same company or attending the same places. For more embarrassing that these meetings can be, it is recommended to be as friendly as possible - greet your ex and the people are if appropriate, present your company (yes, even a new love!). The worst that can happen is the other person does not respond to their greetings, which will only make that person "barely stay on the photo." Be civil, be higher. If a jealous scene, turn back and remove yourself from the site as soon as possible - do not enter discussions, after all, have you or are a couple. Not all people can be friends after the end of a relationship, but at least he tried.
Legal action
We all know that there are people who can take their jealous to an extreme, causing fear and apprehension in his former teammate. If you feel that this is the case, or if you have tried everything and still, your ex continues to pursue him with their jealousies and / or feel you may be in danger, you should seek help. Unless it is an emergency, first talk to a lawyer before involving the police. A letter from a lawyer may be just what the person needs to at least try to control their jealousy.
