What men really want in a woman?
Well, it's impossible for a man to speak on behalf of all men. But almost all of us want companionship, sex and love, not necessarily in that order. Of course, many men like cars and sports and gadgets, but that's not what this article is about. I'm talking here about relationships.
(1) Companionship is very important for us because almost all men need feminine energy. Some of us are not able to express why we need a woman, but most of us feel incomplete without one!
Relations between men and women that are not based on company almost always fail because there are no other points of interest than sex.
Sex can keep a relationship going for a long time, but only a relationship based on sex is tiring, even for a man. The common denominator of all good relationships (not just opposite sex) is friendship. Fellowship leads to respect and enhances tastes and interests. Sex on top of that makes the relationship very, very good.
Of course there are men out there who do not have a clue about her feelings, but even these men are looking for more than sex. The need for female companionship is strong within every man. How do you deal with guys like that? I'll have the answer in just a bit.
(2) Men want women who are open and honest, and do not hide their feelings. When a man asks you a question, he wants an honest answer. He needs to know where he is with you. A man would rather be rejected immediately by a woman than to be teased or lied to.
(3) Men like women who are feminine without being overly aggressive. A little aggression is great! But not much, ladies. A man who likes a very aggressive woman probably has some sort of psychological problem. He's the kind of guy who can eventually turn into you, or he's a masochist. If you get into a relationship like that, you must understand that you are dealing with.
(4) Men like women who are independent and knows her own mind, without overdoing it. Show me a man who likes a wallflower and I'll show you a guy who is or insecure, or who is domineering and controlling. Is that the kind of relationship you want? It's up to you!
(5) Men like women who can be themselves, and not put on a front.
Women often complain that there are not enough good guys out there. But how many women may simply be themselves around men? Those who can will attract men who are compatible. Those who can not will attract men who match this false front. And this kind of relationship does not go far
I can summarize thus: .. Men like women who like to be women
All women are beautiful in their own way. If a woman is physically beautiful, it will attract men. However, if a woman feels beautiful she will also attract men. If you do not believe, try it. You do not have to dress to kill and have a perfect body to attract a good man. Yes, men love physical beauty of a woman. But men are also attracted to the beauty of women in general. And that's a beauty that every woman has. Men are physically attracted to all kinds of women: fat, thin, tall, short, you name it! Nature has given you the body you have; so be comfortable in it.
You know what's sexy to a man? Be the woman you are. This may sound trite, but believe me, men like to be with a woman who is attractive. I can not explain it, but it's true.
My wife is 50 pounds overweight, but I would not trade for the hottest supermodel. You know why? Because she's my best friend and companion. And because I love her. I love her because she can accept love. She wants me to love her, and I do. It's the easiest thing in the world because we are all made of love, in the background.
A man likes a woman who is not afraid to be who she is.
Since you will turn off some men. But these are the guys you want to disable. These are the men that are not compatible with you, and who are not good companions for you. Relationships with men who do not see you as you are, it will be much more difficult and unsatisfactory, then why did not you find out early?
So ladies, the first thing to remember is to be yourself is the very best thing you can do for yourself. It is also the best way to attract the kind of man you really want to be with you.
